Birthday celebration

June 27th, 2008 by Jashodhara Purkayastha

Birthday means the auspicious day when we saw the first light of this earth. We are so lucky to be here on earth. Parents plan so many things for the new arrival.

Every year this is celebrated to remember our past among the people on this Earth. Why shouldn’t we involve all other thing which we realised since the moment we arrived in this world. This could be best done as a Picnic and plant a Tree, dig a well … Help the Nature. This is better than just a Card, Cake or Candle. We are now lively with the pure Air which should be thanked.

Parents must be thanked, who helped us to realise this event. They help us to see the New world every day, every Year and build Hope in us making us aware of the Positiveness all around. To make us happy they must have gone through so many troubles.We want just more & more.

It is very difficult to repay all the neccesscities we got in this Earth from Nature and Parents. We are always in debt and still try to use up the Goodness around us.

Spiritually we have left the Heaven and so cry on Birth, but people around here are happy to see a new life on Earth. Our soul in encased in this Body and we loose the emotions of Peaceful silence, Eternal bliss and Endless freedom.

We try to make the Best moments Here so that these emotions are made perrinial in this ever changing World. In this rush for happiness we forget the return the Earth expect from us.

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June 27th, 2008 by Jashodhara Purkayastha

Once a twenty five years old lady  Nisha took part in a elocution competition. She was a good orator, speaker and spoke very well in the competition. Everyone present in the hall appreciated her speech. One by one all the competitors spoke and competition got over. One of the competitors Sonali, spoke out of context and she was not enough confident about her topic to face the judges.

As soon as the competition got over judges started their  work, counted the marks and were ready to  announce the result.

Then the judges went to the stage and announced the name of the winners. When Nisha found her name in second positionwith Sonali winnig, she refused to take her prize. She started arguing with the judges as Sonali, spoke out of the topic. The judges remained silent and did not utter a word.

The organiser of the competition started arguing with Nisha. She started weeping and said that she did not want any prize for that. Sonali took her prize and went away.

When Nisha came home weeping, her mother asked her about the incident. Her mother consoled her and said,”You have done your job well. If you deserve, you will win everything in your life. God gives the thing at the right time. So don’t repent. No one can take your belongings. Whatever is yours that comes automatically to you”.

Later on after six months, when there was a inter collegeite competition, Nisha got first prize and Sonali did not get anything, Nisha realised that her mother was right.

So success comes if you really deserve it.

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How to win the mind of a student

June 25th, 2008 by Jashodhara Purkayastha

1)Be with the student

2) Be confident of your teaching

3) Accept the students as they are

4) Do not insult them in front of anyone

5) Be friendly, but strict whenever necessary

6) Be frank with them ( by keeping a distance, feel that you are a teacher)

7) Praise them from time to time

8) Encourage them if they need

9) Love them as you love your own children

10) Trust them and give them strength for doing special thing in their life

11) Try to bring out their inner talent

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How to study

June 25th, 2008 by Jashodhara Purkayastha

1) Sit quietly

2)Pray to God

3) Ask His blessing

4) Open your book, read the paragraph once or twice.

5) Then part reading

6)concentrate your mind by deep breathing ( for concentration, count reverse i.e 100,99 etc)

7)Note down thedifficult words or sentences

8) While sleeping, revise whatever you have studied

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