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Fill the mind

November 14th, 2008 by jashodhara

A boy named Satya was eight years old when he lost his father. His mother did not  have enough money to look after her son. She was working in somebody’s house and looked after their child. She was a very reliable lady and everyone in their neighbourhood loved her .

Satya  was an average student. He studied in fourth standard when his mother become very sick. He used to go with her to the doctor. Every time he went to doctor he thought of becoming a doctor. While sleeping he used to pray to god to become a doctor. In this way a year passed . Day by day his mother become more sick. One unlucky day his mother passed away and he became an orphan. His teachers became  little  kind towards him and started helping him in his studies.

At the age of fifteen he passed his schooling and took admission in college. But his aim to become a doctor was still in his mind. He always used to think of helping the needy. He started studing very hard to become a doctor. This way the result of twelve standard was declared and he passed with flying colours.  But he had to appear for common entrance test again. This way the entrance test’s result came out and he got a chance to take admission in private college. He was disappointed as he knew that he can not take admission in private college. With a disappointed mind, he roamed here and there and met some social organization. Some of them had given him some hope.

At last, with a tired mind when he was sitting in a restaurant, the owner noticed this boy and came near him. He asked Satya ,” whats the matter my child’?  “I  noticed you for a long time”. Satya told him the condition he was facing.

The owner of the hotel called him home next day. The next day Satya met the man at his residence. He was ready to  bear the cost of his course. Satya could not believe his ears when he heard the man first. Satya asked the man “Do you have any condition for it?” I would like to fulfil all the condition you put on me “. The man smiled and answered, I was searching for a brilliant child whom I can give my hard earned money for his studies”.  Satya started sobbing and bowed down and said, “my both parents died of poverty, but I wanted to become a doctor from my childhood. But I did not know that I will find a god father in my life”.

Satya took admission in medical college and within five years he became a doctor. After he become a doctor he started practicing in a rural area and serving the poor. His dream completed which he saw in his childhood . He never thought of any thing else other than becoming a doctor.

Fill the mind with correct option, analyse it and start working on it. Surely it will be fulfilled.

Whatever you think, you become. This is the truth of the universe.

You are the MAKER OF YOUR OWN FORTUNE.

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Money Oh! Money

September 29th, 2008 by jashodhara

There was a school boy named Robin. He had a good voice, so he used to take part in singing competitions in school. As he grew to adolescence, he asked his teacher one day,
“I don’t like singing, I want to become a Rock Star”.
“Good you can” answered the teacher.
“Rock stars have a lot of money. I want only money in my life”, said Robin to the teacher.
The teacher was only carefully listening and observing him. After a few days again he came near her and said, “Miss you know, rock star has lot of money. I have seen an interview on TV. They showed his bungalow, his car, everything. I am really fascinated by seeing his life style. The ordinary singer only earn limited money”.
Teacher replied, “Don’t be attracted so much. All that glitters is not gold”.
Then he said, ” I know, everyone thinks like that, but I know, money can Talk, money is everything in life”. The teacher did not tell him anything.
Several years passed. The teacher still remembered Robin. One day she met Robin’s mother in the market. The mother asked the teacher, “Actually, I was eager to meet you for some reason. See God is so great that I met you unknowingly”.
“What’s the matter”, said the teacher.
“Can you come to my place, if you have time, I stay near by”. The teacher was really a helpful natured lady. So she agreed to visit her place immediately. When they reached there, she saw there all the instrument, what are required for a musician. She was happy in her mind.
As soon as they reached and sat down for conservation, Robin’s mother started weeping. Seeing her condition, the teacher felt awkward to ask anything. Many questions came to her mind. She consoled his mother and asked, “What’s the matter?”
“Robin is out of my hand now, he is really a spoil child, takes money, if I refuse to give, he abuses me, he even started robbing valuables from home” the mother said. Meanwhile the doorbell rang. The mother opened the door. A long haired, with ear ring, shirt button opened, a vagabond boy entered the room. When the teacher saw the boy he said, “Oh! Teacher, when did you come?” What a pathetic condition of the boy, who was a brilliant boy in his childhood. The teacher thought for a moment. Meanwhile the mother told of his father’s ill health also. He was still repeating the same thing. “Teacher you know, money is the most important thing in ones life, you have to earn this money in any way. That brings happiness”.

She left their house immediately. After reaching home, the teacher thought of the condition of his parents. His mother told that he got chance to study medicine, but he was not interested. His mother requested the teacher to help her to get her son back.
Two days later, she got a phone call from Robin’s mother that her husband was admitted in the hospital. The teacher thought, this was the right time to talk to Robin. So she proceeded towards the hospital. When she arrived at the hospital, Robin was not there. She was really astonished. But she decided, ‘now I have to help his parents’. She called Robin and told him to meet her at her residence and gave the residence’s address. Duly he came to meet her. She asked him, “Are you happy?” He did not say anything. She said, “Money is what all need, but ‘money is everything’ is wrong. For every desire, you have to draw a line. Every desire should have a limit. Otherwise you will be dissatisfied always. You should know where to draw the line. You should train yourself for that. That is why a child should be trained from childhood to analyze everything. Then it is easier for him to draw a line of his limitation. If you don’t know where to draw a line, for every act, then you will be unsuccessful and unhappy and you will not achieve your goal”.
Robin listened attentively and told, “Now my father is in hospital, if I would have enough money, I could have put him in a better hospital. Rock-stars have Rolls-Royce car, all the comfort, isn’t it?” asked Robin.
The teacher replied, “Yes my child! They have Rolls-Royce, if money would be everything, Rock-stars would not die, moneyed people would have lived for ever. Your parents are more important for your life. Your mother knows her limitation, she has enough money to spend for your father’s treatment. I will not discourage you to become a Rock-star, but they have their ups and downs. Whatever you see is not always true. Everyone on this earth are born for some or the other reason. Yes, disappointment comes, but you have to analyze and find out the work which is actually for you”.
“First of all, at this moment, your concern should be for your father’s health and not money. Money comes and goes and it is important for everyone, but it is not necessary to become a Rock star and earn money. Robin, you are so talented. Why don’t you open your own band and start performing in a small way?”

Water rolled down Robin’s cheek, for few minutes he did not utter a word, then he said, “That is why, I respect you a lot teacher. You showed me the right way. I will form a group band and earn according to my capacity.

Money may be every thing, one should know where to draw a line.

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Selfless Tree

September 4th, 2008 by jashodhara

There were rows of tree in a lane. One day a tree asked another tree. “You are really lucky! So many people come, stand and take rest under your shade”. The tree replied, “Yes, I am proud of myself as my shade spreads every where, but sometimes I feel angry with people, because they give me nothing except trouble”. An old mango tree was eagerly listening to their conversation. He called those two trees and said, “I heard your conversation that is why I want to tell you something”.

Many many years ago, when the Earth was just born, a tree wanted to come to earth, but without God’s permission, nobody could come here. So it went to God to seek permission.

It asked, “God, why don’t you send me to the earth? I want to see the earth”.  God replied, “I can send you to earth on one condition”. “One condition!” exclaimed the tree. God said, “I will send you, if you serve mankind and animals throughout your lifetime”. Tree was very happy.

It answered, “I agree to it, this will give happiness if I can serve them and the most important thing is that I will see the earth”. God granted permission and gave a seed to the man and asked him to dig the land deep and put the seed in it.

As the seed was carried by the man , it thought “I am very lucky as I will make the life and I will decorate the land and help the soil with my hard work”. The man did what God directed him. After some time, two leaves with small stem came out from the seed. When the baby plant came out, God appeared before it. The plant was very happy to see God in front of it. It bowed down and asked, “God! There must be something, so you are here”. God said, “Now you will grow. Your branches will spread every where, you will have lots of flowers.  When flowers will blossom thrilled . Then the bees, hornet (the bumble bee) will be humming or buzzing near you and sit on your flower. You will enjoy them doing such act. After sometime you will be full of fruit all over”.

“God! Please guide me, what do I do as I grow”. “My dear tree! You are really lucky in this universe, that I am giving you a boon that I have not given to any of my creations. You can make your own food with the help of sunlight and water. Your green leaves will be your kitchen where you will cook your food”.

That way the tree was growing, branches spreading every where. Animal, birds started taking shelter. Birds started making their nest and needed more trees. . Animal started eating leaves of the trees. Leaves started giving shade to the unknown travelers.

After some days, the tree was very happy. As the spring arrived, the tree was full of flowers. The entire hornet, bees started humming and started sitting on the flower collecting pollen from flower to flower.

One day, the tree was so happy, when it saw a tiny fruit in its branch. Within no time, the whole tree was full of fruits. When fruits started ripening, man collected it below, then climbed on it and tasted them. The tree was smiling and happily sharing the fruits with mankind.

God was watching this from the Heaven and felt very happy. One night, He came and stood near it and told “what you are exhaling will be beneficial for mankind. Whatever they are exhaling, you have to take it for your life and benefit from them. I haven’t given any boon to them. They always have to depend on you . They would not be making or cooking anything without your help. So they will be using your branches for burning and cooking.

Lastly God came to mankind and said, “I sent the tree for your benefit, so you have to be dependent on trees. All your wishes will be fulfilled if you help the trees to grow. Like trees if you help others, by serving the mankind and fulfill its necessities, you will be my favorite. If you protect the trees, which will be beneficial to you indirectly, you will be indirectly pleasing Me”.

God said, “Serving the mankind is the biggest worship of the Lord”.

Let us Save trees for our Benefit

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Birthday celebration

June 27th, 2008 by jashodhara

Birthday means the auspicious day when we saw the first light of this earth. We are so lucky to be here on earth. Parents plan so many things for the new arrival.

Every year this is celebrated to remember our past among the people on this Earth. Why shouldn’t we involve all other thing which we realised since the moment we arrived in this world. This could be best done as a Picnic and plant a Tree, dig a well … Help the Nature. This is better than just a Card, Cake or Candle. We are now lively with the pure Air which should be thanked.

Parents must be thanked, who helped us to realise this event. They help us to see the New world every day, every Year and build Hope in us making us aware of the Positiveness all around. To make us happy they must have gone through so many troubles.We want just more & more.

It is very difficult to repay all the neccesscities we got in this Earth from Nature and Parents. We are always in debt and still try to use up the Goodness around us.

Spiritually we have left the Heaven and so cry on Birth, but people around here are happy to see a new life on Earth. Our soul in encased in this Body and we loose the emotions of Peaceful silence, Eternal bliss and Endless freedom.

We try to make the Best moments Here so that these emotions are made perrinial in this ever changing World. In this rush for happiness we forget the return the Earth expect from us.

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Success

June 27th, 2008 by jashodhara

Once a twenty five years old lady  Nisha took part in a elocution competition. She was a good orator, speaker and spoke very well in the competition. Everyone present in the hall appreciated her speech. One by one all the competitors spoke and competition got over. One of the competitors Sonali, spoke out of context and she was not enough confident about her topic to face the judges.

As soon as the competition got over judges started their  work, counted the marks and were ready to  announce the result.

Then the judges went to the stage and announced the name of the winners. When Nisha found her name in second positionwith Sonali winnig, she refused to take her prize. She started arguing with the judges as Sonali, spoke out of the topic. The judges remained silent and did not utter a word.

The organiser of the competition started arguing with Nisha. She started weeping and said that she did not want any prize for that. Sonali took her prize and went away.

When Nisha came home weeping, her mother asked her about the incident. Her mother consoled her and said,”You have done your job well. If you deserve, you will win everything in your life. God gives the thing at the right time. So don’t repent. No one can take your belongings. Whatever is yours that comes automatically to you”.

Later on after six months, when there was a inter collegeite competition, Nisha got first prize and Sonali did not get anything, Nisha realised that her mother was right.

So success comes if you really deserve it.

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Want To have good in-laws

May 23rd, 2008 by jashodhara

The man, you are going to get married is somebody’s child, an individual.

  • Be a good daughter in-law
  • Discuss family matter with in-laws
  • Sometimes take them  out with you
  • After shopping, show them what you have bought
  • Involve them in your budget
  • If you want to become a daughter, insist childishly or capriciously on doing something
  • Choose  a decent   outfit to show the respect
  • Never condemn them in front of your friend circle
  • Aged parents always depend on their child, always keep your own parents in their place
  • Always see the good qualities in them

A girl, when gets married, she always dreams of  her future— a good husband,  good in-laws and a good home. Everything depends upon her attitude and moulding

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Economic Management in Marriage

May 15th, 2008 by jashodhara

Working Man and Woman (Average income i.e. Rs. 20000 to 25000) per month

  • Count the income together
  • 25% of one income should be saved
  • Budget should be daily, weekly, monthly and yearly
  • Spend money on proper healthy food
  • Once in a month spend 5% outside
  • Spend 7.5% money on child education and games
  • Spend 5% on fuel for vehicle
  • Minimum money should be spent on electric bill and phone bill
  • Spend 25% of yearly income on vacation
  • Keep some money 2.5% for Gift and donation

Marriage mostly depends on sex and economic condition. If these two problems are taken into consideration, other problems automatically subside.

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Marriage, A Merry Union

May 13th, 2008 by jashodhara

It’s said that ‘marriage is made in heaven’. I say, marriage is merry through ages. Marriage is many years old institution and will continue till the destruction of the earth.

In olden days, after marriage wife used to take care of the family, give birth to the child every year, look after them and supress her all wishes at the corner of the heart. In todays world, women have been given lot of chance to progress in life. They are free to choose their partner. In an open society, every man and woman have right to choose their partner.

Till date, custom of marriage is to match the horoscope, go for numerology etc. When man and woman chose their partner and parents interfere to match these horoscope etc and if it doesn’t match and if there is a difference in opinion, then they will blame the system throughout life.

How to apply a new system then. When a student wants to opt for engineering he has to sit for CET ( common entrance test) because he is entering into an institution. Now marriage is an institution, then why not a test. Marriage counsellor will prepare a questionnaire and both the partner will go there and appear for the test. If the maximum answers match, then they are ready for marriage. This is judged by a counsellor having Premarital counselling experience. Love before marriage is different from a married life. In married life, love and adjustment should go hand in hand. According to me marriage can be successful if both can mould and blend themselves with the situation.

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Forgetfulness

February 24th, 2008 by jashodhara

Forgetfulness …..

Once there were two friends named Bhima and Arjun. They were so friendly that they used to forget everything when they used to sit together. They forget their food, sleep etc when they used to meet. They studied together from childhood. Their parents know each others very well. They are also happy with their friendship. Once they visited a garden with two badminton racket in their hands, while returning they sat for sometime in the garden, forget their racket in the garden. Bhima was more forgetful then Arjun. Bhima once lost his own purse when he was going with his daddy. Last year it was a great —&#