Good Parenting
October 30th, 2007 by jashodhara
- Praise the child if it does something good.
- Encourage to do the work independently.
- Give love, not pampering (By telling stories of life,sharing,caring etc).
- Always trust the child
- Be friendly with the child
- Discuss family matter with it.
- Discuss financial matter.During vacation give the child the responsibility of all the expenses in the family and give him/her the money for that month( Age group—15 onwards).That way they learn the resposibility and value of money.
- Accept the child as it is.
- Listen to the child if it is asking some questions, do not ignore .
- Share your emotion with him/her.
- Do not nag.
- Do not give too much or too less importance.
- Do not make school bag.
- Do not compare.
- Do not insult in front of anyone.
- Do not disagree\agree without reason.
- Do not create unnecessary fear.
- Do not always promise anything while completing any work.
- Don’t scold or insult in front of others or near younger siblings.
- Listen to his/her opinion.Realise him/her about the importance of his/her opinion.
- Give importance to his/her decision and ask him/her to judge properly.
- Don’t differentiate .
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